Topic: Trying hard to appear “normal” 🤔 Okay, let’s use this as an example. You’re meeting someone for your first date. You hit it off well and continue to stay in touch. You feel really good about this one — even though you’re not sure where this will end up.
You’re super excited when they message you. But in your responses, you tone down your enthusiasm and try to limit the use of too many “!!!!” or laughing/smiley emojis.
Why do we do this? Personally, I think it’s because we don’t want to come on too strong. We don’t want to be ‘fangirl/fanboy’ and appear crazy or obsessive. We don’t want to potentially scare the other person.
My response. Be you. Do you. Never dampen your enthusiasm or happiness for anyone. The right one won’t find that overwhelming. The right one will match your enthusiasm.
Lots of love! 💕
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