Sex with a Borderline: Confusing Intensity and Pathology for Intimacy and Passion, Part 1

by: Dr. Tara Palmatier, PsyD -
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Each time a client mythologizes sex with a borderline or narcissistic partner/ex, my eyes roll so hard you’d think there were pinball spring mechanisms in my eye sockets. Sure, some personality disordered individuals are hyper-sexual during the love bombing stage of the relationship. Then, after you’ve legally bound yourself in some way (e.g., marriage or children), the party’s over. No sex for you!

It’s like a drug dealer giving a customer all the crack they can smoke for free until they’re good and addicted. Then the addict pays and pays dearly. Some narcissists and borderlines remain sexually demanding throughout the relationship’s duration. In these cases, it’s more a matter of quantity vs. quality, possession and control.

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